Traditional practices in marriages victimise the couples entering inter-caste marriages in Nepal
The rudimentary traditional practices in marriages are deep rooted in Nepal, which is known for people of minor age entering wedlock to the tune of 7% of married couples being below the age of 10 and 40% of those being below the age of 15. Among such traditional practices in the country, the most outdated and inhuman practice is outrageous ill-treatment meted out to the couples entering inter-caste matrimony. Not much has changed from the age-old wrong practice of considering fellow humans ‘high’ and ‘low’ based on their caste descent. Especially, the marriages and sexual relationships between the two persons of so-called ‘high’ and ‘low’ castes invite the most serious troublesome consequences to the persons involved. Many of the newly wedded couples especially, when either a bridegroom or bride comes from a Dalit family and the other from a non-dalit caste, end up with a severe ostracized penalties pounded on them by the parents and relatives of the so-called ‘high’ caste one of the couple, costing them even their lives at times.
There are numerous news coming from the rural areas on such atrocities meted to the couples entering inter-caste marriages, especially involving a Dalit and non-dalit youth. The recent government allocation of providing a hardship allowance of Rs 100,000 for such a couple does not seem like a good enough remedial measure for breaking down the traditional wrong values handed down from the feudal past. The cases of injustice meted out to the victimized couples must be dealt with a stern legal instrument that must be in place against the wrongful social practices based on such erroneous traditional values that are proving themselves to be the social illness in the modern day social order. Recently, BBC Nepali Radio Service brought out a news on the plight of the victimised couple entering inter-caste matrimony that exposes this social illness rampant in Nepal. For more on this BBC story, click here: http://www.bbc.co.uk/nepali/news/story/2009/11/091125_dalitcouples.shtml.
Report by:
Bhakti Nepal
for Nepaldalitinfo Network